15 Principles for a Powerful Personality
Wednesday, June 24, 2009 at 8:36PM
Courtesy of: Herman Brinkman(1) Speak when necessary -
The more you speak the more you will appear common and less in control. Speak when it is necessary and scrutinize your words before.
(2) Be brief with your conversation -
Don't extend your conversation unnecessarily. Try to conclude as soon as possible.
(3) Guard your reputation -
Always attempt diligently to keep yourself clean. Never perform such actions that stains your reputation.
(4) Remain honest -
Be honest with yourself. This way you will enhance your reputation.
(5) Overcome shyness -
Don't see here and there when somone is talking to you. See directly in the eyes of the next person and remain confident. When you sit and when you walk, don't allow shyness to hide your smartness.
(6) Don't be commonly available -
The more you are easily available to others the more common you appear. Maintain your identity as a busy person.
(7) Avoid the company of the cheap and the fools -
When you want to know a person, see his company. Always remain in the circle of the wise and the powerful. Avoid the cheap and the fools as they steals away your reputation.
(8) Be generous but don't get over involved -
Help the poor and the needy but don't get over involved in their personal life. Over involvement makes you cheap and you will soon find yourself surrounded with their emotions that may affect your life. Help from the outside.
(9) Dress neatly -
A shabbily dressed never attracts respect. First impression is the last impression. Dress neatly and smartly and you will attract attention.
(10) Don't forget gratitude -
Never ever forget the power of gratitude. The wise and the powerful know its strength. Gratitude adds to your reputation.
(11) Perform without fail what you resolve -
Always try to keep your resolution. The more you keep your promise the more powerful and respected you appear.
(12) Keep yourself fit and healthy -
The sick and the weak never attracts power. Therefore, try your best to keep your body fit and healthy. Eat to live and not live to eat.
(13) Walk confidently -
When you walk, don't bend your shoulders and appear like a camel. Walk like a lion and remain confident.
(14) Live a balanced life -
Extreme of anything is harmful. Give proper time to all sections of your life. Your body, mind and soul must also get equal attention.
(15) Don't forget politeness -
It is said that politeness is the ornament of the wise and the powerful. In power, don't forget politeness. It adds to your respect.
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Hello ?
No New Post ??
Aakash
PS: - I Hope you are ok.
Thanks for reminding me. My life is passing from a difficult phase and that diverted my mind a bit. Added a new post today itself.
I want to share one battle which i'm winning eventually.
We all are part of Dev-Asura Sangram being fought in form of human shaped in good and bad person
Good Person should always use weapons made for Good People to win this war (you know the list)
The moment Good Person fights Bad with weapons used by Bad People (all negative emotions and quarreling attitude) we Good Person no longer remains Good and battle is won by Bad.
So if you want to defeat Bad People use ONLY weapons meant for Good People
Remember God is Always with you. Trust Him
(STOP) End of Preaching
Thanks for the tip. Please let me know the list. I don't remember the names of weapons used by Good People.
List is very small ask your parents what they want their child to be, you will have the list
to help you a bit
1) Be good to other
2) Don't loose temper
3) Give Respect to elders
4) ......
the deadliest weapon carried by Good People is "Forgive and forget your enemy".... we have plenty of moral stories in our middle school.
The one i could recall is "how Daku Khadagsing changed.... a part of story in one of our hindi sahayak vachan" here we killed a Daku and transformed him to a human being
You can recall Angulimal where Buddha changed a monster into a monk.
look into our history .............. you will forget counting the number of battle we won over negative energy.
don't fight alone with dark lord, become a part of God's army and then defeat the dark lord.
Look for the ways to Charge the energy points sleeping in you body, instead of oscillating between mooladhar (controlled by fear) and swadisthana (controlled by greed) chakras, move beyond to reach the super power.
i wish to see you cross the dark night, a bright sunrise will greet you.
Aakash
Hi Rohit
I am very happy to see all the great improvements you have made. It is quite amazing in fact how far you have come, since the last time you contacted me.
Your list is great. It makes one reflect a bit I think.
Keep up the good work Rohit. Your efforts have paid off well so far :)